I know I’m about six trips behind right now, but with my time here winding down, I’ve been spending a lot of time thinking about the things I’m going to miss when I go back to living Stateside and the things I’ve learned while I’ve been here.
Things I’ve learned:
- Most importantly, above all else, be flexible. While living abroad, it’s next to impossible to get through a single day without something going astray. Hell, when living in your normal life, things have a tendency to fall apart at the most inconvenient possible moment. But being scared or panicking aren’t going to ease the issue; they’re just going to make things worse. So when things take a left turn instead of a right (like the tram I was on this morning), just go with it. Hop off, make a quick game plan, and go from there.
- Never say no. If someone asks you to go exploring, say yes. If someone invites you to their apartment to hang out, say yes. If someone invites you to a party, say yes. If someone invites you to the ballet, say yes. If someone invites you on a day trip/weekend trip, say yes. If someone invites you to a roof-top barbecue, say yes. In my experience here, not a single time of me saying yes have I been upset about doing so. Some of my fondest memories from this trip were things that were planned/I agreed to at the last second (Krakow, several nights out, and the roof-top barbecue to name a few). It’s honestly hard to think of a time when I went out that I really, really regret. All of them turned out good in one way or another.
- Don’t be afraid to say no. I know, I know, pairing with the last one, this doesn’t make much sense. But being a super introverted person, I need time to myself sometimes. Anyone who’s introverted can attest to the fact that sometimes you need to break away from constantly being with people and recharge. Surprisingly, getting sick here came as a bit of a blessing. I’d been going constantly for over a month and my body just lost its ability to relax; hence, bronchitis. As much as I hated not being able to do anything really while I was sick, my body needed to be able to just relax for a few days and recharge. Some people can go and go and go and constantly be around people, and I say more power to them. Generally, when I’m around people 24/7, I start being borderline insane. I need time to unwind, and the few nights I’ve taken to do so have done me wonders.
- Talk to the locals. Being in a program with only American students and only taking classes with American students can make it a little difficult to get to talk to locals. Hell, I probably very well could have gone the entire semester without talking to a single person who actually lived in the country. But, Lord, am I glad that’s not the case. Our group has gotten to know a few Czechs very well and I have to say, I’m so, so glad we have. Czechs, while some people see them as being standoffish or rude, are far and away some of the kindest people I’ve met. The previously mentioned roof-top barbecue was thrown for us by our Czech friends as a way to give us a proper goodbye. They’re sweet, kindhearted, generous, and outgoing (once you get to know them) and I love the Czech Republic even more because of them.
- Open up. Pulling that introverted card again, I’m the kind of person who falls easily into not telling people much about myself. Listening comes more easily for me than talking. But what’s the use in going through this massive experience with people if you don’t share yourself with them? Some of the fondest memories I have are the “real talk” moments the group of us shared, either sitting in a park, walking around town, or hanging out while waiting up for the National Championship game.
- If you plan to study abroad, choose a country where beer is cheaper than water. That’s obviously not the reason I’ve enjoyed Prague so much, but it certainly hasn’t hurt things (my bank account, most notably).
Things I’ll miss:
- Landing at Prague airport and seeing the big PRAHA sign on top of one of the buildings. There was something so lovely about seeing that every time I landed back in Prague, a nice reminder that I was home. Yesterday, when landing on my flight from Rome, I got suddenly very sad when I realized it was the last time I would be landing in Prague for any time in the near future. To go suddenly from landing there about every other weekend to never is going to be an adjustment I’m not looking forward to in the slightest.
- Hearing Czech. As much as I still don’t know the language and can barely understand a damn thing, there’s something comforting about it. It ties back in with number 1 in that when I get on a plane, bus, or train and hear them speaking in Czech, I know I’m going home. Plus, it’s exciting to be in a different country, hear people speaking Czech, and understand bits and pieces. I distinctly remember getting off the bus from the airport in London, hearing people speaking in Czech, and yelling, “That man just said ‘four’ in Czech!” It’s weirdly exciting to understand something so insane. Especially the word for four. “čtyři.” I dare you to tell me how to pronounce that.
- The fact that sometimes, Czech looks like a thirteen year old girl in that WeIrD tYpInG phase wrote them. Business = byznys. Essay = esej (j’s are y’s). Economics = ekonomika. I don’t know why it entertains me…but, ohhh, it does.
- Easy access to traveling. Let’s be honest, there are a lot of places in the States that, theoretically, I could have been traveling to all these years. But traveling here is inexpensive and easy. Want to take a bus to Vienna? Not a problem. Book a flight to Italy? Simple! Planning trips in the States always seemed so complicated and expensive, but here, trips are easy to plan at the last minute and with little to no information. Plus, the closest foreign country we can visit at home is still a six or so hour plane ride away, whereas here I can get on a bus for two hours and, wham, another country. This is probably one of the things I’ll miss most, honestly.
- The people here. I came into this knowing that the people I met here would have a different bond with me than anyone else I’ve ever known or will ever know again. Being thrown into a situation like this brings about a different kind of relationship with people than anything else. We all had to build up a life from ground zero in a completely foreign setting while knowing no one. I didn’t have any idea how much I’d come to love all of the people here, though. Some of the friendships I’ve made here have been stronger and more powerful than anything I’ve ever really known. The people here have changed me more than maybe even this whole experience has. I’ve gotten to know people whom I would have never had a chance to meet without this situation. The thing that has made this trip the best of my life is the people, no questions asked. Without each and every one of the people I’ve met here, I would be worse off. I can’t imagine going from speaking to all of these people every day for three months to suddenly not being able to see them and be around them. Hands down, this is going to be the hardest transition. It’s going to be difficult to say goodbye to all of them over the next few days and I can’t imagine how badly I’m going to miss them. Never again am I going to be able to say, “Holaaaa,” “yyyyyy,” “Get it, girl,” “YOLO,” “That’s a shot,” “Judging,” or so many other things without thinking about these goofy bastards. Singing karaoke and seeing cute guys and talking about How I Met Your Mother or Big Bang Theory and talking about baseball and cooking and so many other things will never be the same. I can only hope that, now that we’ve all been bitten by the travel bug, getting to see each other won’t be as difficult as it seems.
Sappiness over, for now. Though I’m sure we’ll all have our fair share of it over the next few days. More than our fair share, actually.























































